Posts Tagged ‘enabling’

Alcohol Relapse and When Helping the Alcoholic Becomes Counterproductive

Sunday, August 30th, 2009

It is remarkable to bring up something that family members who have been harmfully affected by the alcoholism of another family member obviously do not comprehend. It appears that by protecting the alcohol addicted individual with falsehoods and deceit to those outside the family, these well-intentioned family members have essentially created a condition that makes it easier for the alcohol addicted person to carry on and move forward with his or her unsafe, detrimental way of living.

Undeniably, rather than helping the alcoholic and themselves, these family members have in fact become enablers who have inadvertently helped negatively affect the alcohol dependent individual’s drinking problem even more.

Relapses Can and Do Transpire

Another key alcohol addiction issue involves alcohol relapses.  Relapses take place when an alcohol dependent person has successfully undergone alcohol addiction treatment and then returns to drinking a number of weeks or months later.  At first thought, this situation flies in the face of sound thinking and appears to be so implausible that it forces a person to wonder why anyone who has gone through the dejection of alcohol dependency can return to drinking a short while after successful alcohol treatment and in turn after reaching sobriety.  There are, of course, numerous reasonable reasons for this.

It should be explained, then again that alcohol dependency research that has centered on the lasting outcomes of alcohol addiction has revealed that long after the alcohol dependent individual has discontinued his or her drinking, critical transformations in the way in which the alcohol dependent person’s brain works are still present. As a consequence, all a recovering alcoholic has to do to involve himself or herself in actions that correspond with the alterations that have taken place in the brain is to start drinking again.

The Need for A Major Lifestyle Modification

There are other reasons why more than a few recovering alcohol dependent persons return to drinking a few weeks or a few months after attaining sobriety. In accordance to the alcoholism research literature, to make a successful recovery, the alcohol dependent individual needs new ways of acting and thinking in order to deal more effectively with difficult alcohol-related situations that will take place.

Conditions such as returning to the same alcohol addictive atmosphere or to the same geographic location; interacting once again with friends from the time when the alcohol addicted individual was drinking excessively; or familiar songs, smells, or activities—all of these circumstances can bring forth memories that can trigger psychological anxiety or push hot buttons that influence the recovering alcohol dependent person to engage in abusive drinking once again. Sadly, all of these circumstances may not only get in the way of enduring alcohol recovery for the alcohol dependent individual but they can also lead to relapse and therefore negate one’s sobriety.

Summary

In an attempt to “protect” the family alcohol dependent individual, family members can essentially cause inadvertent harm by enabling the unhealthy drinking behavior of the alcohol addicted person.

The alcohol abuse research literature validates the fact that most individuals who successfully complete alcohol treatment go through at least one relapse. Alcohol addicted individuals and their family members need to know this so that they do not get depressed or stressed out when a relapse occurs.

Luckily, involvement in support groups such as Alcoholics Anonymous and follow-up treatment and training have resulted in more productive, ongoing alcohol abuse and alcohol dependency therapeutic results, have helped reduce alcohol relapses, and have helped recovering alcohol dependent individuals accomplish ongoing sobriety.

Alcohol Dependency, Alcohol Relapse, and Enabling

Wednesday, August 5th, 2009

It is fascinating to mention something that family members who have been unfavorably affected by the alcoholism of another family member apparently do not grasp. It seems to be that by shielding the alcoholic with falsehoods and deceit to those outside the family, these well-intentioned family members have in reality created a circumstance that makes it easier for the alcohol dependent individual to carry on and go forward with his or her injurious, detrimental way of living.

Without a doubt, instead of helping the alcohol dependent person and themselves, these family members have essentially become enablers who have mistakenly helped deteriorate the alcoholic’s drinking problem even more.

Relapses Can and Do Occur

Another key alcoholism issue concerns alcohol relapses. Relapses take place when an alcohol dependent individual has fruitfully undergone alcohol addiction rehabilitation and then returns to drinking a number of weeks or months later. At first glance, this predicament flies in the face of rational thinking and sounds so unrealistic that it forces one to speculate why anyone who has lived through the awfulness of alcohol dependency can return to drinking a short while after successful alcohol treatment and in turn after attaining recovery. There are, for sure, many feasible reasons for this.

It should be mentioned, on the other hand that alcohol dependency research that has focused on the lasting consequences of alcohol addiction has demonstrated-proven that long after the alcoholic has quit his or her drinking, significant modifications in the way in which the alcohol dependent individual’s brain operates are still present. As a result, all a recovering alcohol addicted person has to do to involve himself or herself in behaviors that correspond with the alterations that have taken place in the brain is to engage in drinking once again.

The Necessity for A Crucial Lifestyle Change

There are even more reasons why more than a few recovering alcoholics return to drinking a few weeks or a few months after achieving sobriety. In accordance to the alcohol dependency research literature, to make a successful recovery, the alcohol dependent person needs new ways of acting and thinking in order to deal more effectively with challenging alcohol-related situations that will take place.

Issues such as returning to the same alcohol addictive atmosphere or to the same geographic location; interacting once again with friends from the days when the alcohol addicted individual was drinking irresponsibly; or familiar songs, smells, or activities—all of these situations can bring forth memories that can set off psychological tension or push hot buttons that influence the recovering alcohol dependent individual to engage in abusive drinking once again. Regrettably, all of these circumstances may not only contradict ongoing alcohol recovery for the alcohol dependent individual but they can also result in relapse and as a result work against one’s alcohol recovery.

Summary

In an attempt to “protect” the family alcohol addicted person, family members can in point of fact cause inadvertent damage by enabling the negative drinking behavior of the alcohol addicted individual.

The substance abuse research literature highlights the fact that most individuals who effectively complete alcohol rehabilitation experience at least one relapse. Alcohol addicted individuals and their family members need to know this so that they do not get down in the dumps or stressed out when a relapse takes place.

Luckily, involvement in support groups such as Alcoholics Anonymous and follow-up therapy and training have resulted in more effective, long-term alcohol abuse and alcohol dependency treatment results, have helped decrease alcohol relapses, and have helped recovering alcohol addicted individuals reach long-term sobriety.

Alcohol Relapse, Alcohol Dependency, and Enabling

Monday, July 27th, 2009

It is fascinating to bring up something that family members who have been negatively affected by the alcoholism of another family member clearly do not grasp. It seems to be that by protecting the alcohol addicted individual with untruths and deceitfulness to those outside the family, these well-intentioned family members have basically created a situation that makes it easier for the alcohol addicted person to carry on and press forward with his or her hurtful, detrimental style of life.

Undeniably, rather than helping the alcohol addicted person and themselves, these family members have in truth become enablers who have unintentionally helped negatively affect the alcohol addicted person’s drinking problem even more.

The Chances of a Relapse are Real

Another key alcoholism issue has to do with alcohol relapses. Relapses take place when an alcohol dependent individual has effectively undergone alcohol addiction treatment and then resorts to drinking a number of weeks or months later. At first glance, this situation flies in the face of rational thinking and appears to be so doubtful that it forces one to speculate why anyone who has lived through the dreadfulness of alcoholism can return to drinking a short while after effective alcohol treatment and in turn after attaining recovery. There are, for sure, many conceivable reasons for this.

It should be highlighted, nevertheless that alcohol dependency research that has centered on the lasting outcomes of alcohol addiction has demonstrated-proven that long after the alcohol dependent person has quit his or her drinking, significant changes in the way in which the alcohol dependent person’s brain works are still present. As a consequence, all a recovering alcohol addicted individual has to do to involve himself or herself in actions that correspond with the changes that have come about in the brain is to begin drinking again.

A Requirement for A Radical Lifestyle Modification

There are even more reasons why quite a few recovering alcohol dependent persons return to drinking a few weeks or a few months after attaining sobriety. In accordance to the alcohol dependency research literature, to make an effective recovery, the alcohol dependent person needs new ways of reacting and thinking in order to deal more competently with challenging alcohol-related circumstances that will take place.

Situations such as returning to the same alcohol addictive atmosphere or to the same geographic location; interacting once again with friends from the time when the alcohol addicted person was drinking irresponsibly; or familiar songs, smells, or activities—all of these conditions can elicit memories that can set off psychological anxiety or push hot buttons that influence the recovering alcohol addicted individual to engage in abusive drinking once again. Sadly, all of these situations may not only negate long-term alcohol recovery for the alcohol addicted individual but they can also result in relapse and therefore go against one’s sobriety.

Conclusion

In an attempt to “protect” the family alcoholic, family members can essentially cause unintended destruction by enabling the unhealthy drinking behavior of the alcohol addicted individual.

The alcoholism research literature confirms the fact that most individuals who effectively complete alcohol rehabilitation go through at least one relapse. Alcoholics and their family members need to know this so that they do not get down in the dumps or overwhelmed when a relapse occurs.

Fortunately, participation in support groups such as Alcoholics Anonymous and follow-up rehab and training have resulted in more effective, ongoing alcohol abuse and alcoholism treatment outcomes, have helped decrease alcohol relapses, and have helped recovering alcoholics accomplish long-term sobriety.